In today’s fast-paced world, achieving balance in life has become a coveted goal for many.

There are also arguments on social media about how balance is impossible to attain.

In my opinion, balance is putting into your life the things that you want to have and eliminating the things you don’t enjoy. 

That doesn’t mean quit your job and move to an island either!

You have responsibilities that are unique to you.  That may be work, family, friends, hobbies, etc. Each one of us has a different set of responsibilities and only we know the balance that we need in our life.

Finding balance is not just about splitting your time equally; it’s about prioritizing, setting boundaries, and nurturing various aspects of your life.

Here are some tips to help you find your own form of balance:

Recognize Your Priorities

Understanding what truly matters to you is the cornerstone of achieving balance. Take a step back and identify your core values, ambitions, and the things that bring you joy. Recognize that not everything holds equal importance. Prioritize tasks and activities that align with your values and long-term goals.

Set Boundaries

Learning to say no is crucial in maintaining balance. Setting boundaries at work, in relationships, and in your personal life is key. It’s about understanding your limits and being firm in what you can take on. This might mean delegating tasks, asking for help, or simply declining commitments that could overwhelm you.

Time Management

I often get asked how I get so much accomplished, and my response is that it has to do with time management. What I do myself each week is to start by reviewing my schedule for the week.  Then I look at my responsibilities for clients and for my own business.  I put those into my schedule accordingly so that no deadlines are ever missed. I also take the time to figure out roughly how long a project will take me.  This way I can block that time out on my calendar. I set timers so I know that I keep my focus for a certain period of time and when the timer goes off, I get a break from what I am doing.

Create a schedule that accommodates your various responsibilities but allows flexibility. Make sure to have free time in there too in case something comes up that you need to take care of or want to do.

Remember to also have time for self-care in your schedule. It is important to take care of yourself if you plan to stay highly productive.

Remember, it’s not about fitting in everything but about making time for what matters most.

Take Care of Your Well-being

Self-care is not a luxury; it’s a necessity. Make time for activities that promote mental and physical well-being. Exercise, meditation, hobbies, and quality sleep play a vital role in keeping you energized and focused. Nourish your body with a balanced diet and maintain a healthy lifestyle to support your overall well-being.

Quality Over Quantity

Strive for quality in your endeavors rather than spreading yourself too thin. Be fully present in whatever you are doing. Whether it’s spending time with family, working on a project, or relaxing, immerse yourself in the moment. This approach not only enhances the quality of your experiences but also helps in managing time more effectively.

Flexibility and Adaptability

Life is unpredictable. Embracing change and being adaptable are essential. Be open to adjusting your plans when needed. Sometimes, the pursuit of balance might mean reassessing your priorities and making necessary changes to achieve a new equilibrium.

Seek Support and Delegate

Don’t hesitate to seek support from friends, family, or colleagues. Delegating tasks, whether at work or home, can ease your load. Recognize that you don’t have to do everything yourself and that it’s okay to ask for help.

Regular Evaluation and Adjustments

Regularly assess how you’re doing. Reflect on what’s working and what’s not. Adjust your approach as needed. This could involve reevaluating your priorities, setting new boundaries, or shifting your schedule to maintain balance.

It’s OK to change your mind about what your priorities are, or to make a shift in how you do things. You need to do what feels right to you in order to have that sense of “balance” in your life. It’s a journey, and like all journeys, the path may change as you go. 

Trying to achieve balance is about creating a life that harmonizes with your values and aspirations.